Iโve started to write this and stoppedโฆand started again and stoppedโฆoh, letโs just say more times than I want to admit. I knew the first year would be challenging, but I had nothing to compare it to and, if Iโm being honest, didnโt really know how to ask someone else about it. You know, how do ask someone, โtell me how you dealt with that first year after one of your parents died?โ